When you discover you are pregnant you may experience shock, happiness, emotional numbness or detachment. Or you may feel worried and anxious or have conflicting and confusing thoughts and feelings. It can seem very difficult to make a decision about your future. We are here to help you explore your thoughts and get in touch with your feelings to enable you to make a choice that is best for you.
What are my options?
We believe that in order to limit negative emotions following a decision making process a person needs to feel that they have been able to express their feelings and desires. For those facing any crisis and consequent decision it is important that a well thought through, fully informed choice leads to a healthier emotional outcome further down the road.What you do with these options is entirely your decision. We are here to listen and support you in whatever decision you come to.
We will help you understand what each option involves so that you can make an informed choice
There are the three main options:
We provide free, unbiased, factual information
I’m the partner, what can I do?
Some men feel positive at first about a pregnancy and the possibility of fatherhood, but then other feelings can occur. For some the pressure of circumstances takes over -
Maybe the responsibility of a baby or another child seems overwhelming right now
It’s just not what you wanted for your life
The financial implications might seem daunting
The relationship isn’t strong enough
It’s not the right time
You want the baby, but your partner doesn’t
You both want different things
We welcome partners to come in and talk to us.